It turns out it was the Gateway breaker that did it. My old main breaker is now after the system so it wouldn't work. According to my juicebox I'm running at 65.27. I also noticed I'm only running on PW, the solar has not come back on.
Yeah that's super high! Anything much higher than 62hz and you'll start to see more and more things misbehave. @jjrandorin's advice on how to bring this to Tesla's attention is quite good.