There is no way to sell an EV to a plug hater. And there is no need to. Surely some people like this and hate that. But another major factor is people don't want to look stupid or ridiculous. As soon as driving an EV is superior in terms of convenience, economy, range, fuel-up times, availability of fuel, and so on, going to buy a new ICE car will make people around you wonder if you've taken leave of your senses.
Or do you see people commuting in horse carriages? Oh wait, some do, e.g. Amish people. I wonder what made them do the transition to actually use wheels?