Lol, it is as if you are channeling the NEC code writers. ;-)
As of more recent codes you now are mandated to have “multi wire branch circuits” (shared neutral circuits) breakers tied together with handle ties so that when turning off one circuit you are forced to turn off the other at the same time.
Typically folks just use double pole breakers for this instead as they already come with the handle tie and are probably cheaper than buying it separately.
When I had my tesla powerwalls installed in Jan of 2020, they moved all but one of my breakers into the "backup loads panel". The only thing not on the backup loads panel is my tesla wall connector. In my main panel, I had gone through and labeled every breaker, next to the breaker, with p-touch labels so I knew exactly what was on each circuit.
When the two tesla electricians came, they saw it and said "oh cool, this is nice. We will give you a chart so you dont have to figure out all this again, as to which "new breaker in backup panel" comes from "which old breaker in main panel".
Anyway, when they got done, I noticed that a lot of my loads were now handle tied together, and was confused (I dont have as much knowledge around this stuff as you guys do). I asked them "Hey, how come these two things are tied together when they were not tied together in my old panel? Now, if I turn off X breaker it also turns off Y breaker and it wasnt like that before".
They said "oh, those are shared neutrals and now, by code, they have to be handle tied together. I said "oh, ok" but didnt quite understand it, but realized they had done it "on purpose, because it needed to be done". I went and did a bit of online reading about shared neutrals to see if I could understand the issue, and came to the the understanding (although very basic understanding on my end) of what you and
@AlanSubie4Life are talking about, related to shared neutrals.
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Edit: changed.... " loads NOT handle tied together" to ......"loads NOW handle tied together", which was what it was supposed to say