Dude - you call this a "hit and run" !?!?
What are you - from midWest or something?
This is an average garden variety parking job in 'da City.
Any surface areas of your car that are exposed to contact with other cars' bumpers will, inevitably, take damage from parallel parking encounters. Some bumper-car encounters will be initiated by others, some by yourself. It's a cost of owning and parallel parking a car in 'da City.
It is how it is.
No, it’s not. No one cares that people in “’da city” can’t park. You do damage, you pay for it. You’re supposed to leave your contact info and report it, and you don’t? That’s a hit and run.
Where the heck are YOU from?! Being from NYC does not absolve anyone from doing the right thing, or following the rules.