I just realized when reading that some of you guys either confuse two different things or just use the wrong terms

there are 2 completely different things on Model X: tow mode and trailer mode....
Tow mode is for Model X being towed by some other vehicle.
Trailer mode is for actualy Model X towing something (trailer, camper or accessory)
By attaching hitch received in US version of MX does not trigger anything on MX itself. Attaching trailer to the receiver on the ball does not trigger anything either. Attaching electrical 7 way connector triggers trailer mode to turn on for MX. Ity is indicated on dashboard with blue trailer icon.... when trailer icon is blue no AutoSteer is available. You can manually go to settings and switch trailer mode to off - but if you still have electrical connection on for trailer it will turn dashboard icon into amber so actually electrical lights on trailer will be on but car is in "accessory hitch" mode and allows Autosteer features to be engaged.
When driving with heavy trailer in "accessory hitch mode" that allows autosteer at times on HW1 it triggers forced trailer mode (disabled autosteer) followed by message "heavy load detected"... to reset this, you need to park, power off your car through menu and start again and again disable trailer mode to accessory hitch mode

continue driving. It happens more or less frequent depending what you are actually towing... it happened to me a few times over 500 miles when towing around 4500 lbs dump trailer on HW1 car
I towed jetskis trailer on HW2 for about 200 miles and it hasn't triggered "heavy load detected" and forced trailer mode... I was able to stay in accessory hitch mode at all times with this trailer.... side note same trailer with same jetskis on HW1 car triggered for me a few times "heavy load detected" on same route... I drove even a little bit more aggressive on HW2 car to see if it does "heavy load detected" but no... it didn't. On HW1 you really had to break and accelerate gently to avoid "heavy load detection"... any sudden acceleration or breaking on HW1 would trigger "heavy load detected"...
I hope it clears some air
