It's more like 15 miles to work and 15 miles back, 3 days a week, charging every 2 weeks.
I don't have Sentry mode on at home, it's always in a garage at home. A couple days a week it's not driven at all. I am doing city driving ,but very rarely touch the brakes at all. I do go over 70 mph at times, but that is gong with the flow. I have been trying real hard not to be "Rippin" anywhere. No bike rack or any drag except few normal things in the trunk. No long trips yet cause of bad range so far!
Ah, okay. So if you only charge every 2 weeks, you're actually mostly seeing standby losses and there doesn't seem to be anything else amiss. Tesla is one of (if not the) worst EVs for standby losses, as there's many ways for it to occur and the cars generally wake themselves up to a certain extent.
If I assume you get rated efficiency, rough math says you're missing about 14.5kWh over those two weeks, or about 1kWh/day (a bit over 1.3%). Tesla says 1%/day is normal. Your consumption would imply about 43W average, and I recall the average on the Stats app being about 60W median, so you're actually doing better than most people. Note that this doesn't mean the car is consuming 43W constantly, just that it's the average (this could be several short bursts of 300W when the car is routinely awake, for example).
I'm not saying "sell the car!" because that's extreme, but if this incredibly important to you, there are other EVs that do better in this regard. Chevy Bolt is one of them if I recall correctly, as well as Nissan Leafs.
I wish we had figures like gal/hour for idle consumption in gas cars, we'd have published typical kWh/day values for EVs. Unfortunately, even in the case of gas vehicles, those figures were not prominent. For EVs though, as you've found, they can actually matter a lot in terms of what you expect to get out of a charge. Maybe this will become a requirement in the future. I hope so.