I appreciate the second comment. The point of the post was to see if anyone else experienced people crossing very clear boundaries because of the Tesla hype. I wasn’t expecting so many people to zero in on my gender only.
Honestly, I haven’t found any boundary issues, but people genuinely interested and even excited to ask about it. I thoroughly enjoy those conversations, unless I’m in a hurry, in which case I just tell them that.
I confess to having been on the other sude, too. Right before ordering my Model 3, I saw a couple and their small child loading groceries into theirs at the Wegmans supermarket. I approached them and just said “I have to ask - how do you like your Model 3? I’m considering one and was just curious how it’s working out for you.” They gushed about it - the wife even more than the husband - and seemed more than happy to answer my questions. I hope I wasn’t too intrusive, but their answers really did help convince me it’d work for our needs.
It’s a curiosity item, no question about it. Unfortunately, questions from the Unenlightened come with the territory.
If people are blocking you in, that’s really uncool. Maybe a “Happy to answer your questions, if you could please just pull up over there” would work?