I purchased/installed/used the following struts for a few months before deciding to go for the fully powered option.
https://www.amazon.com/StrongArm-Universal-Socket-Supports-Struts/dp/B07GBK8Q3Z
These worked just fine for me while I had them. Yes, you will need to apply a little more force to close the trunk since all these aftermarket struts will be stronger than the OEM ones... not sure why some folks are surprised/disappointed by this.
Another observation is the trunk would bounce ever so slightly when it reached the full open position... again due to the additional strength from these aftermarket struts. Certainly not enough to cause any significant stress or additional wear on the metal brackets of the trunk. However, the slight bounce was just enough to annoy me and made me feel the operation was not very smooth. Of course, I also realized these are simply inherent (& perhaps minor) shortcomings of all these inexpensive aftermarket “automatic” struts.
Unless the alignment on your trunk was/is way off due to poor production/assembly by Tesla, then you should have zero problems with operation, cracked rear glass, wear on or deformation of the metal brackets/arms, etc... with any of these aftermarket struts (assuming you pick the correctly sized one for the application). I think the only time when there is slight risk to crack the rear glass is during the install (when you are removing the OEM struts... you can slip and accidentally hit the rear glass with the OEM strut).
Of course, no one needs a powered trunk or frunk. Ultimately, I just decided the coolness factor of a fully powered mechanism alone was worth the price of admission. So, I removed both aftermarket “automatic” struts from my trunk and frunk and installed the powered ones. After using the powered ones for almost 1-1/2 years, I can say it has been more practical than originally anticipated... especially the powered frunk since I no longer have to touch & press on the frunk to close it. Being an OCD car detail freak, not putting finger prints my vehicle is a big plus.