Haha, I actually called my wife to tell her to open her Tesla app to see the " We're Building your Car" status. Since it's her car. While jokingly saying I called Elon to tell him to expedite the order since we need it by Feb 20.
Joking aside. From previous experience, they tend to prioritize high margin configs first. I also might have been lucky on the production cycle. I know Tesla builds cars in batches. So if they are not scheduled to build your config. You might be waiting anywhere from several weeks to months. I've experience this on my M3 LR order in 2019.