To expand on my last post - I feel like the reason most other manufacturers are behind is twofold:
1) There hasn't been a car company driven by software. Fair enough, that's going to drive a ton of change in the industry, and the big players are already responding. Look at all the crazy goodness that's coming in the Hummer EV, Mercedes's new screen, and even all the unique 'truck stuff' in the 2021 F150. Manufacturers are starting to take more leaps in trying new things.
2) (*this is the big one*) Traditional manufacturers don't rely on their customers to be their beta testers. I HAAAATE this about Tesla. Tesla is like Cyberpunk 2077. They roll out a half-baked feature and then refine it based on how it affects their userbase. That sucks. "Hey guys, look, your Model 3 can find you in a parking lot now! Oh, it also runs stop signs? Guess we didn't think of that!"
Most traditional manufacturers vet their new functionality better before releasing it. They're used to that, because they've never had OTA updating. So, if they have to do an update, they know it's a HUGE inconvenience to their buyers and a big strain on their dealer infrastructure. That means new innovations are delayed, but they are much more stable.
And again, even still there will be design flaws and whatnot.....but my old beater Tahoe hasn't required a single 'bug fix,' ever, in 25+ years. My S needs one every couple weeks. It's Tesla's lack of functional stability that irritates me. Don't do betas, do final, vetted releases. Good lord, can you imagine how horrible it would be if Tesla didn't have OTA updates? If I had to go to a service center every time they did a minor bug fix?