The number of 40+Amp EV's will grow very little (compared to what is going to happen with mass market EV's).
So I will explain what will likely happen during next 10 years or so.
First of all,
PHEV (plugin hybrids) sales will skyrocket. Those who do not feel themselves comfortable with range limitation,
they will choose this option as oldschool vehicles will be slowly phased out anyway. Pretty much all PHEV's do
not support rapid charging and only slow charging. Mostly due to smaller batteries that are not able to charge fast.
Most PHEV's will charge at 3.3kW (16A), some MIGHT be have an option of 32A onboard charger, though that will be rare.
And these vehicles want EVSE's the most. As their battery is the smallest and runs out easily.
Short range (100 miles) and medium range (200 miles) EV's will be the main market of EV's.
Both are for price sensitive customers.
Majority of short range EV's have 16A on board charger. And people usually
don't pay extra for 32A charger as rapid charging station network grows anyway. Early adopters preferred 32A due to lack of rapid charging stations.
Medium range vehicles do usually have 32A (or 40A in case of Tesla) onboard charger. And no 40+A options are
expected on those vehicles,
including Tesla Model 3.
Long range vehicles (300 miles and more) don't actually need EVSE's much (away from home). Those will need rapid charging network mostly at specific places on the route (with amenities). And even these vehicles will have up to 10kW chargers as standard. Tesla now
removed the option to spec up to higher onboard charger with smaller battery vehicle.
Long range vehicles will be rare. Less than 5% of the whole market. Most manufacturers will not even offer those.
There is also a technical reason why Level 2 onboard chargers will be up to 10kW (11kW non-US).
Due to inefficiencies it is unreasonable to have active cooling activated while charging at EVSE. As cooling requires
100-200W of extra power (fans).
Therefore I do not recommend going too crazy with EVSE maximum output. Rather have at least 2 available spots.
It's also fine to have two 40A EVSE and one Nema 14-50 socket. Probability of running out of 100A is extremely small,
even with 3 vehicles charging at the same time. Like I said, almost all vehicles will charge between 16A and 32A.
Teslas will not be the most widespread vehicles with a plug. They will have the longest range though, on average
PS. Don't forget to add a 110V outlet. Some smaller electric machines might have a visit, including bicycles, segways, etc.