...there was a talk about a set of networked chargers that adjusted J1772 pilots so that in case demand is too high, the cars can be throttled. The expense of such a solution compared to offering 14-50's, though, may be prohibitive until the apartment complex reaches that point.
If that option is to be considered, and I agree it should not be if another good option is available, there are other considerations.
The two shared service options now generally available are EverCharge (the one which presented at TMC Connect) and ChargePoint:
EverCharge uses a single connection, often 208/30, to serve up to five EV's, with charge available based on throttling to vehicles least in need of charging. Obviously the available per vehicle charge or even a single dedicated one is nothing like the 240/50 connection or better that we all want. OTOH, most EV's in Multi-unit housing are on maintenance charge or not charging at all, so there is rarely need for more capacity. EverCharge works best in capacity-limited buildings and/or ones with obstreperous HOA's or restrictive local ordinances because they provide insurance and billing management for the HOA. everCharge charges $1000 for the charger plus $200 if you want a Tesla connector plus all installation costs and $15 a month to administer the process.
ChargePoint has dedicated charging for each space, so is closer to the personal outlet model that is optimal. ChargePoint charges $40 per month per charger plus electricity used at the rate set by the HOA, but there is no setup or equipment charge.
I have EverCharge in my building because the HOA would not approve a dedicated connection. EverCharge has been responsive to issues, but the entire process is not smooth and I really have trouble recommending them. They are fairly flexible though so I suspect (hope) it will be better in the future.
ChargePoint is very expensive to use, at $40 per month overhead, but the electricity has no markup form them and can even be free if the HOA does not want to extract payment.
All things considered neither of these is a good option.
Were I to do it again I'd endure lots of grief to have my own dedicated charger if at all possible.