Charging an EV is not like running the dryer for 45 minutes to dry your clothes. I have a Sense energy monitor and I can see that my dyer on 'high' uses about 7kw of power. But it is not always 'on' it can cycle off and on as the internal temp warms and cools. The car however can pull 32 amps (I have a RWD) for hours and hours. Don't mess with substandard components. For my 14-50 I ran #6 wire to add margin and used a Hubble receptacle. And the Tesla Wall Connector is limited to 32 amps when I set it up. That's all my car will do anyway, but even if my car could go to 40 amps I can't ever see the need to charge are that rate. In fact I don't even charge at 32 amps, I normally dial it back.
While I installed the wire and outlet, I had an electrician land it in the subpanel. The first time I charged at 32 amps I noticed after about 2-3 hrs the car stopped charging. I couldn't figure out why. I checked the breaker and it had tripped. I didn't check it right away, it was a few hours after it tripped. I reset the breaker and re-started the charging. Eventually the same thing happened. This time I quickly checked the breaker and it must have been around 200 F. It did the job, it tripped at a high temperature. The electrician had installed a cheap breaker, whatever he had on the truck. Didn't make the panel brand (should not have to as long as they were compatible.) However, this could have caught the circuit box on fire. I bought a new breaker with the matching brand and it fixed the problem. Tossed the bad breaker.
There is a YouTube video from Munro and Associates that talks about this problem. I can't imagine spending $50K on and EV and skimping on the outlet to save <$100.
An easy test is to just touch all the components of your charging hardware, the plug, wire, outlet, cable, breaker, after it has been running for a few hours. Anything that is more than warm needs to be checked out. Maybe the wires aren't fully seated or torqued, maybe the breaker is the wrong type, or the bus bars were corroded, maybe a wire is under sized.