Sorry to hear this. Hope you and your family are safe.
Feedback below, don't take this personally, this is just my own opinion
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Driving down to 3% battery remaining is risky IMHO.
That would also indicate only 2kWh of energy left in the pack (beyond the "bricking protection").
Given that there are ~7000 individual battery cells being managed, it is not an exact science to guess the exact amount of energy remaining in the entire pack.
Personally, I don't consider anything under 15% battery "safe".
I've taken our car down to 7% twice, and both times I was very close to home on a return trip, on a major highway, and pushing it to see what would happen in the final 30 km before our city, making it very easy to get a cab ride home if anything happened.
I wouldn't even dream of taking the car below 15% if I was away from our local area, especially if I was on a road trip.
There you go. My advice was free, and that's all it's worth, but it works for me.