Bottom line, I think your choice to purchase from Tesla rather than a 3'd party is a smart choice.
Remember, most cars are painted to keep the steel from rusting. Aluminum typically does a bit better. You live in SF, Ca., so salt air will do some damage to raw Aluminum, but not like steel. You however are showing defects in PLASTIC, if I read your images properly. If you park on the street you will get lots more of those, so you should just live with it IMHO.
Bodywork is EXPENSIVE, so I suggest if you buy a car with defects you just live with it. To fix those two things will cost upwards of $2500, including blending and such, because touch up never works so the entire fascia needs to be painted. That is, assuming you purchase work at a proper Tesla certified shoppe. [I would NEVER do work outside of a Tesla certified shoppe because these cars and paint codes and such are finnicky at best.] Plastic work does not require a Tesla shoppe, per se, BUT color match will be better if you go to a Tesla shoppe.
Let me end by saying that if YOU are happy then anything we have to offer is less important.
I see you PM'ed me about this same car, so this is my answer.
I hope you enjoy your new vehicle.
Best,
T