I'd suggest, although still pricey, is to just fine a used Model X, likely at 90D that has depreciated down around now to 85-90K, low miles. You'll have warranty left, get performance, etc.
The P90 depreciates more, and P100D definitely even more, but 75/90 less. Most of the depreciation happens in the first year so if you get someone selling theirs to upgrade for example (a lot are) with AP1, then you should get a good deal and will see depreciation more at a normal level.
Plus, see you are in NY. That is a cold climate so in worst of times you'll only get about 60% at times of the actual stated range. eGolf would be horrid, plus you'll want AWD.