Yeah, my wife and I are starting to grow tired of the choppiness of the MY...coming from air suspension in two BMW X5s, this is getting old. I've had older standard-suspension X5s also, and they were nowhere near this choppy. And I only have the 19" Geminis. Looked into the new springs from Mountain Pass, but I don't want to lower the vehicle, and the luxury suspension (which seems to have a very long lead time) is pretty pricey to set it once and forget it, but prob makes sense for someone who wants to quickly adjust their suspension for daily driver and then weekend warrior at the track. Just wish there was simple softer spring setup available. It may still wind up that I go with the progressive lowering springs plus the lift kit, and the net will still be a little higher ride height, but hopefully softer.
I do agree that the tires are a huge part of the issue. I'm not a fan of Continentals, and have been patiently awaiting for options in this size and load class. I absolutely love Vredestein tires, and they have taken harshness out of many other vehicles I've owned, and it looks like Tirerack just started to offer them for the MY -
https://www.tirerack.com/tires/tires.jsp?tireMake=Vredestein&tireModel=Quatrac+Pro&partnum=545RY9QTPXL&vehicleSearch=true&fromCompare1=yes&autoMake=Tesla&autoYear=2020&autoModel=Model Y Long Range&autoModClar=
I'm going to order a set and replace these Continentals first, and then revisit the springs/suspension.