Personally (after having driven Merc, BMW, Audi, VW and Ford over the last 5 years), I don't find the noise at motorway speeds to be in any way unreasonable. The wipers are just fine. The interior trim is just fine (and the seats are wonderful). The Autopilot works mostly OK, and the only thing I see it doing worse consistently is the excessive phantom braking. I too hate the way that certain 'premium' (eurgh) marques nickel and dime every option, charging a premium for the same kit as their 'mainstream' brands.
It’s interesting how people’s perceptions are so different. I find my M3P to be excessively noisy at motorway speeds, the wipers are complete garbage and the seats, while reasonably comfortable, aren’t nearly supportive enough for a car of this performance. The auto headlights are a joke.
I don’t understand why some people are so against options, even if you have to pay for them. Choice is good. I like to configure a car to my own personal requirements. The fact that Tesla offer so few options is not, in my view, a positive thing.