I think you should try to do this as a dryer outlet—NEMA 14-30—and get some quotes on that. That’s still pretty solid for overnight charging. Since it will be used almost exclusively at night, you can keep it from overlapping with the use of your real clothes dryer, and oven, etc. and then it can probably be installed on your existing main electrical service. Tesla doesn’t sell a direct 14-30 adapter anymore, but you can get a 10-30 adapter from them, and get a short conversion cable from a 10-30 outlet to 14-30 plug.