Tires and wheels are too important to the driving dynamics of the car to base selection on aesthetics. You can't see your tires while you're behind the wheel.
It's simply difficult to fathom why someone would think a less practical, less capable tire would look good. When I see someone with a flat tire on the side of the road, in recent years it has almost always been a "racer boy" setup with low profile tires. Nobody needs that in their life!
But I think you're knocking down a straw man. Aesthetics and tire performance are not either/or. I agree that Tire and wheel performance is more important than Aesthetics, but it's not as though with low aspect ratio Pilot Sport 4S tires you're looking at something unappealing. Indeed both my car and my wife's car frequently get comments about the tires and wheels with people asking what they are, how much they cost, Etc. As for low profile tires being more vulnerable to puncture, there's no data to support that assertion. They are more vulnerable obviously the curb and pothole impacts. No question about that. But since switching to 30 series tires on my car (265/30 - 20 in front and 275 / 30 - 20 in back– both Michelin Pilot Sport 4S) I've had no issues with bent rims, flats or any issue in relationship to the tires at all for that matter. I've also however have forged wheels and am pretty careful to avoid curbs. In your case, you may be comfortable with 18s and believe the trade-offs work better for you. I guess that's the beauty of it you get to pay your money and make your own choice. I couldn't be happier with how our cars have turned out.