The frustrating thing about these issues is that they seem to have nothing to do with perception. For whatever reason Tesla has chosen to be VERY conservative with reduction of speed. Yet, it also seems inconsistent - I'm not convinced it always would slam on the brakes in this situation. What's going on internally that makes the reaction so different?
Originally I started typing up what I thought how the AI makes decision, but I realized I'm way too uneducated in ML/NN stuff to attempt an explanation that would stand up to scrutiny. But in a nutshell, I think decisions are made via probabilities, and these can vary quite a bit for what we humans consider a "similar situation". The computer just sees pixels and there's no guarantee it will think it's similar to something else it handled correctly.