Same here, have one on order. Pretty egregious some of these current issues, like that giant gap on the roof window on the left side?? Whacky panel gaps, passenger seat rubbing the console but driver's is 1" away?!?! What? That won't fly with me personally. Get me another one will be the answer, denied! Tail lights sunken inward, scratched trim...somebody not wearing clean gloves to handle interior parts. Sounds like Tesla is running an Amazon warehouse type operation on the production line. Just get it out the door!!! If they complain, deal with it later. This is basic 101 quality control that any other company would never let out the plant door, if so very rare. I just looked at my BMW 435i, that is 5yrs old for fun, nothing but perfection everywhere. This is status quo with other manufacturers. Fair to compare? Maybe not...but still. They have enough experience at this point it shouldn't be an issue.
The checklist link is pretty good here on the forum. But you need to have an eye for stuff that is more subtle. Like paint issues. Somebody catching that seat touching on the passenger side yet not the driver's side. Nobody commented on it so far here. This shouldn't even be a thing to have to look for honestly.
Only response I have to this is: there isn't a section on other car forums which I've been on for 20yrs+ like BMW/Audi/Mercedes/VW for "delivery/quality" issues like Tesla. You see recall section stickies, which applies to all cars. But QC is another altogether for a dedicated thread/sticky. These gaps and things are so obvious, like the current Window/glass shift to the right with huge gaps...Tesla only has themselves to blame. Making the customer catch all of these things is absurd. But hey! I'm up for their game. You got the wrong guy here to do this to. Their attitudes are likely your average consumer will never notice/see this stuff as you state though.
Let's the games begin!