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@cab I actually agree with most of your explanation about what you like in cars, what I don't agree with is the notion of "most car guys".
When I was young, I drove my parents cars, from a Buick Park Avenue, Pontiac Grand Prix to a Honda Civic etc...
The first car I bought was a 1992 Honda Prelude SR-V (Manual Transmission). It was a riot. I loved the car. I had modified the car (some of it myself) and I still think of that car very fondly.
I consider myself no less of a a "car guy" now but my likes and dislikes are different. So, everything you find the same about EV's, I find exhilarating. Maybe I am nuts, maybe I'm just not very smart but I've NEVER driven any car that makes me feel the way my Model S makes me feel.
Frankly, I could have bought many other cars (like an E63 AMG) for less money but I left the test drive feeling bored. Again, I get how some might LOVE the roar of the engine from the E63 but it just wasn't for me.
I just don't think that excludes me from being a "car guy" or excludes the Model S from being any less soulful than any ICE car.
It certainly doesn't exclude you from being a "car guy"! Indeed, I think anyone with a passion for cars - ANY cars - probably qualifies as a "car guy". I haven't owned a lot of cars compared to many, but most I've owned (or purchased on behalf of my kids, but got to drive) were at least somewhat sporty or at least sportier versions of the "mainstream" model - 67, 82 and 95 Firebirds/Trans Ams (yeah...I am "that" guy), '95 Maxima, '97 328i sport, '97 M3, '01 530i, '02 M5, '04 Focus SVT, '05 GTO, 2012 Volvo XC60 R-Design, 2013 P85+ - most of them red, yellow or blue! Only our '00 Honda Odyssey and 2012 Volt fell outside that formula. My own progression as a car guy moved me toward "sports sedans" as a car that I could drive every day, and yet still have a sporty/fun driving experience. Hot hatches are also an area of interest, but a "GTI" is probably more my taste than a Focus ST (i.e. I'm old).
The Volt was my attempt to go to something "completely different" after my M5. That experience continued my "Car guy" evolution. Like you, I was (and am) smitten with the electric driving experience - the single gear experience addresses every complaint I've had with automatic transmissions for, well, forever (and why half my list above were sticks). Today's automatics, while better than ever, are also perpetually tuned for economy. 8+ gears and they race to get the highest gear as manufacturers desperately try to hit EPA numbers (and sacrifice "drive-ability" in the process) - sure you can put them in sport mode, but then you end up with some autos that refuse to get to the highest gear, have overly sensitive throttle mapping, hang too long in gear when they shouldn't (they are always second guessing the driver).
When my Volt lease was coming due, I knew I wanted something with a plug, BUT wanted something "sportier". I waited for the gen 2 Volt to come out only to be disappointed that it felt more like my gen 1 Volt that I had hoped - it was a "better" car, but not enough better in the "sporty" category for me. I then test drove the Audi A3 E-tron. I actually
really liked that car, but at a paltry 16 miles of EV range and a decent price premium over the Volt, I just couldn't bring myself to pull the trigger...just not enough "plug". I didn't even bother test driving the BMW 330e because it was even pricier and had even less range than the E-tron. I couldn't really afford the "new" Model S I wanted but when Tesla initiated the CPO program it was a matter of time and I ended up in the P85+. It was (and is) the best plug-in sports sedan in my price range.
So what's next? I'm not sure! I test drove a Bolt EV back in July. It's a great car. I like the size, utility and ride quality. While the numbers show it as being pretty quick, for whatever reason it just didn't "feel" that quick. I didn't get that Tesla-like wave of torque right off the line (and I nailed it....a lot...I was on my own on the test drive). The end result is while I liked it, I find it hard to pull the trigger on one. My next candidate of interest is the just released Volvo XC60 T8. It only gets 19 miles on a charge, but is a small SUV, looks great, has 400 hp (gas and electric), and may just do the trick. Oh, and of course, there is the Model 3 - a car size that is much more along the lines of what I was drifting towards before I bought that dang Volt!