I've got a Model X coming in May/ June '18. We camp a lot, bring extra kids and bikes along etc, and I think getting our gear and 2-3 bikes on board while transporting 6+ people is going to be a challenge. With no rooftop box, that hitch is going to be key, so I am already spending way too much time thinking about how to optimize it.
I understand the key issue that makes the recommended weight limit of 120 lbs for hitch carriers less than the rated tongue weight for trailers is the dynamic torques. When you have a long lever arm such as a bike rack or cargo carrier and go over a bump, the torque on the hitch receiver could be considerable. If one could reduce this torque, it should be possible to increase the loads that can be safely carried. Tactic #1 is just to keep the center of mass of the carrier as close to the hitch receiver as possible. Another tactic, though, would be to set up a pre-loaded counter-torque, such as a tensioned strap running from the top of the bikes/ cargo box to an attachment point higher up on the back of the X. This will not reduce the amount of static weight the hitch is carrying, but it would reduce the torque exerted on it.
The question is, where to attach to the back of the X? The spoiler is tempting and perfectly positioned but may be too fragile. I'm not sure if anything could hook on to the indentation you grab to open the trunk. I don't think I'll be welding on a big hook or drilling any holes either, or my kids will disown me. Has anyone else considered this strategy/ broken a spoiler mount/ made any other grievous mistakes/ come up with a brilliant solution you'd like to share?