Thanks for the post, great to compare notes. We are on a long trip right now, having just arrived in Washington DC from Portland, OR. We have covered about 3300 miles in the last 7 days.
Model X P90DL, 22" wheels, two passengers and a ton of cargo (moving stuff for our daughter), average temps in the mid 90's.
Our average energy use for any given leg seems to vary from about 360Wh/m at the lowest, to about 480 on the high end. It's been a great trip so far, much easier than expected in fact. The trip planner has been working well, and seems to be getting more accurate as we go, does it learn? We have never had to drive below the speed limit, nor draft to reach our next stop. Typically I have been driving 5 over the limit.
We started out always waiting until we had 20% for remaining at destination when charging, but have started going when the car says it's ready usually between 10 and 15 percent. Across all this distance and dozens of Superchargers, hot weather and wind, our max deviation from the trip planners predictions were +3% / -9%.
Used AP about 70% of the time, works great, but as others have noted, pay attention, it can be erratic occasionally. Often when passing a vehicle with some sort of trailer it would suddenly slow down not wanting to pass.
Also, as others have mentioned, very impressed with how good I feel after driving 600 miles in a day. Not tired at all! I attribute it to the technology and the amazing car, but also to the regular stops to get out and move around and get blood flowing!