Very helpful to have this all in a single post. Thanks for sharing.
The values I used during my installation were identical to yours, except for two items:
Front torque values:
Front damper (coilover) lower through bolt and nut, 106Nm (78.18 lb ft) (torque at ride height, hub to fender desired measurement)
I used 84 lb ft.
Rear torque values:
The 2 upper damper bolts to body (installing up) 41 Nm (30.24 lb ft)
I used 17 lb ft.
Can I ask how you were able to verify your values? I definitely want to get this right, as I'm OCD about this as well, but was never 100% confident in the values I found. I'm mostly concerned about the rear damper-to-body value, since mine is quite a bit lower than yours.