She was the first to bring up the fact that if I get it, she will build resentment, and if I get a different car, I will build resentment. It's certainly a tough situation...
Getting a Tesla has been my dream since 2012 though... so it's difficult unravelling all of that and buying a different EV for about the same amount of money that isn't as objectively as good as a Tesla.
This is my first experience with a financial decision that could have lasting impacts on my relationship, and it just makes it more difficult that it's about my Tesla Dream of almost 10 years. I'm hoping we can talk more about it and find a solution that leaves neither of us with resentment. Thank you for your reply!