An argument with the wife today. Need opinions on who is right/wrong.
We had a very good friend and his family come visit us in LA this weekend. Friday, we were all set to go to Disneyland and on the way out the door, he got a phone call: his mom died. He had to fly immediately to NY, get his passport and then fly next day overseas. His wife and 3 kids stayed in LA and decided not to disappoint the children and we all went to Disney. 9:30pm. Everyone exhausted. Time to go home. Here is the argument:
My wife wanted me to make them take an Uber to their hotel in Beverly Hills. I argued that I couldn’t dump them off on their own to find the Uber lot when all their kids were exhausted. I would drive them. My wife says I’m “selfish” for not considering her feelings. She said she and my kid were exhausted and wanted to go home. The added stop to BH took an extra 50 min. Now I’m in the doghouse for doing what I thought was the right thing.
What do you all think?
We had a very good friend and his family come visit us in LA this weekend. Friday, we were all set to go to Disneyland and on the way out the door, he got a phone call: his mom died. He had to fly immediately to NY, get his passport and then fly next day overseas. His wife and 3 kids stayed in LA and decided not to disappoint the children and we all went to Disney. 9:30pm. Everyone exhausted. Time to go home. Here is the argument:
My wife wanted me to make them take an Uber to their hotel in Beverly Hills. I argued that I couldn’t dump them off on their own to find the Uber lot when all their kids were exhausted. I would drive them. My wife says I’m “selfish” for not considering her feelings. She said she and my kid were exhausted and wanted to go home. The added stop to BH took an extra 50 min. Now I’m in the doghouse for doing what I thought was the right thing.
What do you all think?