Yikes! What kind of voltage was it seeing that it rejected charging altogether?
I was at a campground a few weeks ago using a TT-30 adapter; that maxes at 120V/30amps.
I rate-limited the Model 3 to 30amp draw, and when I plugged in, I saw the voltage was between 99-100V. Definitely a long run from the distribution site - such is the nature of a campground. It wasn't much better than using a "stout" 120V/15a circuit, but the TT-30 circuit was included in my campsite rental.
At home, I have an HPWC and usually charge at about 237V/48A. I figure that's pretty robust - not sure I could get much better.
As far as my Roadster was concerned - the thing only checks droop when charging with the 115 volt cord that comes with the car. There were (at this LEADS qualifying Art Gallery) 3 nicely painted EV spots (due to the size of the Gallery), of which 1 just never worked period, and the other 2 worked - of course few architects or electricians ever take into consideration percentage voltage drop, even though the NEC requires the next larger wire size when the first outlet is over 100' distant. I knew it was a 20 ampere circuit, rather than an 15 because the receptacles were 5-20 ground faults. Of course, if they had run 15 ampere breakered circuits with 5-15's at the car, it would have been perfectly legal with the same #12 AWG wires and the Roadster would respond in the same way. Its not a big deal since in this case there is very little heating.
My main point about commenting here - is that in my opinion the majority of the blame goes to that initially poorly designed Nema 14-50P attachment plug, which as I say got unreasonably hot even at the Tesla Service center. As mentioned Tesla eventually did 3 separate things to ameliorate the trouble, but I'm sure across the US and Canada there have been multiple close calls - blamed on electricians and inspectors - when they are not to blame usually. Of course - Leviton's chintzy junk gets honorable mention here as far as contributing to the heat issue.
Now myself, I have a good quality EAGLE Nema 14-50 receptacle in a metal extender box far away( 2 ") from the garage wood framing, which nowadays I mostly use it for a portable 32 ampere J1772 charger cord, or my home made snow blower - which typically draws 14 amperes and maybe 35 amperes for several seconds in severe weather. Of course, being unbelievably cold at the time helps.