I desperately want to dump the ICE, but I don't want a car which comes with conditions - I want a car that will take me where I want to go when I want to go there in a reasonable amount of time.
I am sure that you understand that if you own a gas car, it comes with conditions. Sure, you can fill up quickly while on a trip. But for most people, since they can't see pollution and don't count the cost of filling up with fossil fuels, the only condition they see is how long it takes.
And we are only talking, for the most part, of people taking a once in a while trip, and mainly charging at home during the roughly 23 hours a day when we aren't driving!
For many of us, the trade off of one "condition" with another is a worthwhile, even valuable thing. As it is, though, if I have to charge at a 50 amp outlet, I can arrange it that said outlet is at a motel, where I will not be required to "wait" at all. I have had many motels offer to install an outlet, for no other reason than that they value the electric car business. when I have not even asked.
Sure, it might take a phone call, maybe some extra planning. But the trade off might be my kids' or grandkids' health and happiness. And mine.
The condition that I had to give up, was periodically changing my weekly schedule, driving out of my way when I was going somewhere else, getting out and pumping poisonous noxious fluids into my car, standing in the weather, and then, and THEN, having to go PAY for it! I guess you gotta weigh your conditions. Charging my car while I wander around a strange town being a tourist ain't so bad.