I agree with you. After a lot of driving and pontificating (and test driving a LR), I just returned the P. Too many issues and too expensive to fix when I can just exchange. It was a super fun car on smooth roads and road trips, but just the wrong car for my daily life.
My awesome delivery advisor helped me find a 7 day return LR AWD, white/black, 19"s nearby that I'm picking up tomorrow. 20k less, much better ride and interior, still plenty quick and maneuverable. I can always get the 3k perf boost.
Thanks again everyone, I really appreciate everyone's input. It was super helpful. Hopefully the return isn't janky!
Congrats on getting what you really want and what best works for you but please level with us.
From reading your posts it sounds like:
1. You regretted getting the white interior. Buyers remorse, it's all good, it happens.
2. You spent more for the car than you really wanted. Buyers remorse, it's all good, it happens.
I am not sure if you have actually driven the AWD with 19s vs. the M3P back to back but keep in mind these cars have a sporty/firm suspension. I own both a SR+ with 18 inch aeros and M3P+ with the 20s and there is very little difference in ride according to my butt, although this is subjective. Contrary to what you hear the 20" wheels are not made of play-doh and don't bend or crack if you hit a bump.
Also, the M3P+ is lowered .39", which means you can't even tell. It supposedly has 1mm thicker sway bars, not enough to make a difference and most still need aftermarket sway bars for track use.
Furthermore, how is an LR AWD with 19" sport wheels $20k less than a M3P+? The difference is $6,500. Also, factor in the loss of the tax credit now. Also, the last time I checked the Acceleration Boost for the LR AWD was $2k.
All that matters, is that you are happy with your purchase and you don't have buyers remorse.