Welcome! I am in the same boat with you!
I am getting a Tesla in April, so ordering in/around February. I am so torn between getting the 3 Performance and the S Performance. I can’t quite justify the $40k difference in my mind so I’m hoping for a significant price reduction on the S after the New Year. Otherwise I think I’ll stick with the 3P.
This forum has a wealth of information. I read it every day and I still have yet to crack a dent in all of the info that’s available on here. These guys are great!