There is definitely some piling on going on here, so I am going put on my moderator hat for a second...
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(moderator note)
I am going to ask people to dial back on the gang piling that is going on in the last couple pages of the thread. While I also share your desire to see how this turned out, the more people gang up on the OP, the less likely this is to happen.
Please voice any opinions in a respectful manner, even if they are dissenting ones.
Thank you
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(Regular content, not moderation).
I have said this in a few other threads here recently, but I find TMC can be both very welcoming place, and also a very harsh one, depending on the angle that someone comes into a post with. This isnt moderation content, but, the responses in this thread from members here are mostly driven from the lack of personal accountability, at least in my opinion.
TMC in general has a pretty diverse set of regular members, some very pro tesla, some very anti tesla, and most somewhere in the middle. Where most of them meet, however, is a dislike of posts where the person paints a picture that they have no accountability for something that its fairly obvious they do have accountability for.
If, for example, (and yes I realize this is totally "putting words in the OPs mouth"), the OPs story had included a statement near the beginning something like:
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"Let me start off by saying I didnt have my keycard, This is my fault, I was silly for believing what the salesperson told me about not needing it, so I defiinitely exacerbated this issue by not having my keycard with me, but........"
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Its my belief that the responses from the members here would have been VERY (very) different.
In any case, I also am wondering how this comes / came out.
@Knightshade , actually it was
@brkaus who first suggested the "wrong car" premise and after reading the story again, I realized that explanation fits the story exactly.
With the number of teslas in CA, and the fact that model 3s only come in 5 colors, and all trims look basically the same, it would not be uncommon to be at the wrong car and not realize it, especially if you were in a larger parking lot. I have done it once myself, and my car has carbon fiber wrapped mirror caps, and is a 2018 with a chrome delete, and is blue, one of the "more rare" of the 5 colors.
I only did it for a second, but my car ws like 6 cars away from the one I wallked up to, pulled the handle, and wondered why the sentry eye was looking at me through the (less tinted than mine) window.
The OP may think that making that mistake somehow makes them appear less intelligent or something, but thats not the case. It just means they made a mistake, panicked, and exacerbated the situation by not pausing. I dont know if that is the case here, but again would ask people to not pile on, both with and without my mod hat on.