There is almost assuredly nothing wrong with your car. Regardless of what it SEEMS like on these boards, not everyone is getting the update all at once. It can take weeks (or longer) for updates to roll out. I have said this in a few threads, but my model 3 P, purchased in 12/04, with EAP and later upgraded to FSD, AND with "priority updates" earned as a referral award, is still on 12.1.2.
I have Hardware 2.5 as well, so the other thread that is intimating that "everyone with HW2.5 has this but us hardware 3.0 dont" is wrong.
Lots and lots and LOTS of people dont have the update yet, so there is nothing wrong. You just have to wait, like a lot of us do.