I'm not heavily worried about it. My estimates will likely average what you and your wife do. I'll probably only have to charge once or twice a week. I do however plan to Uber to help pay for my new car so this is where the concern comes in. I know that it's frowned upon to always use the superchargers. I haven't yet figured out if overuse is prohibited for my local supercharger.
Here has been MY expierience with UBER / LYFTING, keep in mind this is in Portland OR. where people generally don't like cars and has anti-car culture...
I have been driving uber / lyft about 4-5 years now part time... off/ on
I would ONLY drive the premium versions Lyft-LUX and UBER Select). Demand for these is VERY low here, and I do not drive much between rides to save milage and range. I would get about 1.50 to $2.00 per mile at about 75 miles average per night.
Tips tend to be better and more frequent as well!!
not to mention the routine "speeches" I would get on a VERY frequent basis about the car, how it drives, financials.. ect ect. even given out several referral codes.
I have used other "premium" vehicles (Mercedes CLS 63 AMGs, Audi S4) as well as a minivan for XL as it pays the same as premium BUT with many more ride requests! and more comfortable to "relax between rides (except the tesla of course because your not burming gas and putting wear on your motor sitting still to keep warm or cool)
AAaaaaannnyyy wayyy.. I always had enough charge to do a full 10 hrs w/o trying to save power and passengers always loved the car ( better car = higher tips) many would want me to "demo" its quickness.. kinda fun!
all that was when I was LEASING a 17 Model S 90D. I was able to easily keep under my milage limit, got the EV tax credits at the time, as well as write-off the car, insurance, small supplies (gum, candy, water, car washes, tires, ect ect.)
I did this with each car I used for ride share.
As you know the no.1 cost of ride share is depreciation (if new car) and GAS!!! then oil changes ect.
My apologies I kind of went off on a tangent or two there.. I just get excited when I see other using tesla to rideshare!
there are super chargers all over around here and I have a home wall charger. never had a problem as far as charging / overuse,