We justify our cars, teams, and loves with logic and specs but that really has little to do with it.
Really what this comes down to is who you are and what you want.
Think of an old drunk guy at a bar thinking he is cool. Slow, belching, farting, gasping, stinking.
He spent extra to have a ICE age car (Internal Combustion Engine) but no one notices.
He drives home in his slow, belching, farting, gasping, stinking BMW, MB, Dodge, or Corvette.
For the next 26 years this car will still be burning down their stupid world.
I am not saying that Tesla owners are cool but many at least seem aware of more than specs.
So let's look at the specs you are asking about.
Blind Spot Detection
Tesla has Blind Spot Detection alerts and shows you onscreen cars, bikes, pedestrians, etc.
See
Active Safety Features. Mercedes Benz, BMW, etc. are stuck doing little HUD displays with
limited or no graphics. Their concept cars with big onscreen graphics are months or years away.
Side Collision Warning
Tesla again alerts and shows cross traffic in the
Active Safety Features. It also includes
Automatic Emergency Braking, Forward Collision Warning, Obstacle Aware Acceleration,
Lane Departure Avoidance, etc. Again, MB, BMW, and the rest are showing concepts.
Tires
You can get all kinds of tire on a Tesla. The ones you would not want are loud run flat tires.
The point of a BMW, MB, Dodge, Corvette, etc. is to be as loud as possible so pick a loud vibrating tire.
Insurance
Insurance costs are about the same or lower for a Tesla compared to a comparable BMW, MB, etc.
State Farm seems to have even better rates for Tesla than Tesla's own insurance.
You left out what to me are the most important features.
Safety
Do you want the safest car?
Telsa makes the safest cars by far.
Quick
Do you want the quickest car? The comparable old ICE Age BMW's and MB's are so slow 0-60.
Even their promised concept cars are not as fast at the same price-point as a Tesla today.
It is impossible to accelerate on an onramp in a Tesla and not smile.
Updates
BMW, MB, and the rest promise that someday they will be able to do over the air updates.
Two years ago,
InsideEVs found that the Model 3 had 124 key updates in the first 2 years.
One day my Model 3's top end went up by 7 mph. Improved 0-60. Improved 0-60 again.
We got Track Mode, Sentry Mode, Dash Cam (x4), Netflix, Hulu, YouTube, arcade games,
and of course Farting.
How many new features has any other car company installed over the air in the history of the world?
None.
Repairs
ICE Age cars have 30,000 parts. A Telsa does not have an Exhaust, Catalytic Converter,
O2 Sensor, Spark Plugs, Rings, Oil Pump, or thousands of other parts.
Dealers
BMW, MB, and the rest force you go to dealers. That's were the old guy at the bar works.
But to me maybe the key thing you said is that the consequences of a gas car aren't "material" to you.
I think that alone says where you are.