mnx
2018 M3P
This whole thing to me was an immediate red flag. Having a performance based model that doesn't hold alignment, gets squirrelly under hard acceleration and tears through tires way too fast is a enthusiast's nightmare. Then to be told that until they get a long term fix, I am responsible for alignments and replacing tires is insane.
That is really weird that both of your Model S's had issues with going out of alignment. I've got >18,000km on the car now and wear across both sets of tire treads (winter/summer) is even. Hopefully it stays that way!