As it's been almost a month since my original post, I just wanted to see if anyone has any progress with the issues if they have been resolved by recent tesla updates, or if it's purely an Android 13 issue.
Model Y: 2022.20.8 > 2022.28.1
Tesla App: 4.11.2-1215 > 4.12.1-1271
I ask as I have now upgraded from a Pixel 4a running android 13 to a Pixel 6a running android 12.
Currently my Pixel 6a running android 12 is working absolutely as expected.
However the phone is begging to me updated to android 13, and I am avoiding this as much as possible until I know for sure the issues are fixed.