Great list! I thought it would be interesting to break it down and see what we know so far:
all I really want to do when i get in my vehicle is adjust the seat, mirrors
Done automatically for you if you have the Tech Package. Otherwise, hard buttons on the side of the seat for the seat, and a conventional 4-way hard button on the driver's armrest for mirrors.
Model S has thermostatic controls, so that should be automatic as well. Controls are at the bottom of the 17" screen so pretty easy to hit, probably.
When driving I may re-adjust the mirrors
Really? Anyway, conventional as noted above.
I expect frequent adjustment to be less common with a thermostat (as compared to my RAV4-EV with its slider controls), but again hopefully the position at the bottom of the screen makes them easy to deal with. It also remains to be seen what can be done with voice command and the rollers on the wheel
change the radio presets/source
I mostly listen to podcasts in the car, and I think that the next/prev and volume roller on the steering wheel will be good for this. Will be interesting to see how the source selection works.
On the stalk like a regular car, plus they're rain sensing
Right at the bottom of the 17" screen
I don't know if anybody has seen this one yet. I'm very interested in this too.
I'll add air suspension to the list, since I may need to jack the car up when going into and out of my driveway.
....Everything else I do not use frequently. Physical buttons for these items would be the best case scenario, for me personally. A single soft button may be able to do some of these items but I prefer a physical programmed buttons (especially with all that unused console space). Would not mind at all some small buttons located on the bezel of the display that were programmable.
One thing that could be cool would be a row of soft buttons, and then you could assign what features were on those soft buttons. If built right into the screen bezel, they'd be virtually invisible.
Anyway, we'll see just how well this 17" screen really works.