Some comments upon the OP's posts, based upon my LR-AWD, in the cold clime of Maine. Since the OP has a Performance, I'd add 10% to all of my datapoints:
• at 45f, I see about 10% range loss, compared to 70f, looking at my Stats over the last 3yrs of data.
• at 68mph, I'd expect 245Wh/mile. And, ABRP shows a calibrated efficiency at 65mph of:
• The Model 3 is an amazing road trip car. Anyone who tells you different is lying to you.
• 1352Wh/mile!!! I've never seen above 900Wh/mile. You're off the scale.
• The seat and steering wheel warmers don't impact your range nearly as much as the central HVAC. 67f and on a low fan setting usually keeps me within the trip prediction.
• Of course, if you pay supercharger rates and get lousy efficiency, it'll be as much as an ICE, that's just basic math. If you were able to charge at home and get normal efficiency, you'd find it comparable to buying $1/gal gas.
• At 45f, and at 70mph, I expect range about 280 miles. Look at the above ABRP calibrated data, I just pulled a few minutes ago. At 65mph, I get 241Wh/mile, in winter temps. That's EPA-rated range. If your result was the norm, it would be all over the internet.
• For short 5 mile trips, given you're only using 67f interior on low, you really shouldn't see much of a drop, like you do in an ICE.
• Your charging rate is slow, are you using a destination Supercharger? Or is it because you're not pre-conditioning?
• 441Wh/mile is insane. My trip meter set for October onward thru Winter, shows about 275Wh/mile. My whole year average is about 250Wh/mile.
So, as I said at the start, I don't think a Performance should be more than 10% worse, efficiency-wise than a LR-AWD. Your data looks wrong, very, very wrong. You need to escalate your issue.