I guess some of these things that annoy us depend on how a particular car was built - rattles, wind noise, paint quality, panel gaps etc.
Other things, common to every Model 3 are a result of the design itself - insufficient insulation/road noise, indicators, headlight & wiper controls, voice recognition, rear window emptying into boot, software, phantom braking etc.
Annoyance depends on how important any particular aspect is to each of us.
I have none of the 'quality' issues & have experienced all of the 'design' niggles... yet other than the headlights I've learned to live with them. The sheer joy of owning & driving the Tesla, software updates, effortless charging at home or on a supercharger and numerous other positives makes me very (too) forgiving of its faults.
Apart from my wife, two Daughters & a house this is the most expensive thing I've ever funded and I probably have fewer annoyances with the Tesla than I've had with any of those!