I'll track down my schematic, but basically I used three relays and a 240V indicator lamp. Two 120V relays are there to ensure that no power flows to the output unless both plugs are plugged in (otherwise you'd have a shock hazard since the Tesla and UMC completes a circuit), and the 240V relay ensures no power flows unless you are plugged into two separate legs of the electrical panel. It's pretty straightforward and works well.
In most cases, true; in some cases, there are failure scenarios in ground-handling that can leave certain parts of the device floating at line voltage. You're unlikely to encounter them if you use a plastic box for the combiner, rather than metal. It has to do with return path for current where the neutral is compromised (something I run across with reasonable frequency in campgrounds).
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I'm only slightly likely to build one but I'd like to see your combiner schematic. I'm very curious what the circumstances might be that would put two phases close enough to each other that such a thing would be useful, but not actually present them for access with a 6-, 10- or 14- receptacle. where does this happen? how long of a TT-30 extension do you need in these circumstances?
--Snortybartfast
Depends on how the campground's electrical system was designed and they're all over the place. I've seen some cases where 240V is run to a campground box, but the TT-30 runs from L1-N and they use L2-N to feed both line conductors on the 14-50 (you get 120V but not 240V in this case). I've seen some cases where a 3-wire 240V feed (L1/L2/N) is provided and every other pedestal alternates between L1/L2, not offering 240V. Newer campgrounds tend to get it right with a 4-wire feed to each pedestal, 240V on the 14-50, and TT-30 on L1 / 5-20 on L2.
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As I was reading this thread, I thought of another optional question you might try to ask as part of a future part of this poll...
"What percentage of your AC charging is done at the following currents: 120V/12A, 120V/16A, 240V/0-29A, 240V/30-39A, 240V/40-49A, 240V/50-79A, 240V/80A" Give them entry boxes that must add to 100% if possible. This might give you data for not only the mode (HPWC, etc.) but also the magnitude of charging...
You might also ask if dual chargers are equipped (can't remember if you have that or not).