Following as I'm having the same issues. I have two 200 amp service panels. One panel is backed up by my 2 Powerwalls and the other isn't. Whenever anything on the non-backed up panel is drawing power my app shows that usage as power being exported to the grid. Right now it's only a wall oven and an electric dryer but I'm planning on purchasing an EV as soon as the Rivian truck comes out at the end of next year.
My Nerio in my gateway has 6 CTs. Two for solar, Two on the main line in my gateway (this is where the backed up panel connects to the gateway) and the last two are on the feed lines in the panel that isn't backed up. I've got a trouble ticket in with Tesla support and they acknowledge seeing the strange flows but so far no solution..]