Well....
A "cycle" is 100-0-100. From what I have seen, I believe 10 charges of 10% might be "slightly" better than 1 charge of 100-0. You are not going to do that anyway (100-0), and both are "1 cycle".
Its entirely possible to get "analysis paralysis" trying to min max all this stuff, and some people enjoy that, but it isnt necessary to drive the car. Speed kills (EPA) range, and the "range" number on these cars is at EPA speeds which is 48 miles per hour.
There is a pretty big difference in "keeping it under 80" and "keeping it under 70" for example. With that being said if one goes into it not expecting to get the epa range, and just drives it like a normal car, thats likely the best way to go unless you enjoy trying to "min max".
We dont know if model 3s are going to get throttled at superchargers or not yet. Perhaps someone else has seen posts of that. I dont supercharge other than the rare time I go somewhere outside the range of my car, so dont care too much about that topic.
Planning on driving this car for 20 years, to me, is like planning to use a smartphone for 20 years. In 20 years I would think that you would likely have replaced the battery at least once, so none of this is going to matter, if you drive an "average" number of miles, like 12k miles a year.
The Arizona Freeway speeds are 75, doing 80 is pretty routine. That's only about 1/2 the driving though.
The reason for diving into the numbers so deeply is wanting to understand how to best prolong the life.
For instance, if the quote "Current battery modules should last 300k to 500k miles (1500 cycles)." is to be believed. What's the secret to getting the 500k number versus the 300k number? That's basically what is driving me. Is the difference luck of the battery draw or is it within user control based on how the battery is managed? That's the million dollar question for me.
I'm sure it's a combination of both, but for those parts that are within my control, what are those? As far as I can tell, it's everything that's been covered on these forums as in, charge to 80% (maybe less but you can go more if you need to), don't go below 20% (but you can if you need to occasionally), store at 50% for extended times. Don't supercharge too often if don't have too, high charge rates are also not optimal. Etc, etc.
So I understand it enough to know that those things make sense with regards to batteries in general. I'm really just trying to decide with all of those factors, will that result in getting to the 500k number of the stated possible range where someone that supercharges daily would only get 300k.
Also, is the LFP prone to longer life so I could possibly get a higher number of miles without jumping through as many charging hoops?
I understand most people don't keep their cars that long, so none of this really matters. They just have a "drive it like you need to and don't worry about it". And I'm sure that works just fine.
You bring up another good point; "Replacing the battery"
I'm not opposed to it, and actually have replacing the battery as part of my budget estimate. That's another question though where the point may go to LFP. That's going to be the cost of replacement. If say, 10-15 years down the road the battery needs to be replaced, will LFP be cheaper than NCA to replace? One would assume so given what makes up the battery.