I drive a Leaf and it is easy for anyone to see when my car is fully charged at any time. 3 solid blue lights on the dash mean the car is full. Here are the levels :
1 flashing 0-33%,
1 solid, 1 flashing 33%-66%
2 solid, 1 flashing 66%-99%
3 solid 100%
Addendum: Once a Leaf is done the 3 blue lights only remain on solid for 5 minutes then they all go out.
OP, can you post some Plugshare URLs of the locations where you've found J1772 stations that DO NOT indicate if the attached vehicle is charging or not? I've not personally seen any J1772 L2 EVSEs for public charging that don't indicate in some way either via dot matrix display w/a message, UI on the LCD (e.g. solid lightning bolt and blue power flowing animation), a charging light, etc.
OP's poll is bad, as well. My answer would be none of those choices. My answer would be only if I'm 100% sure it is FINISHED charging or I have obtained permission from its driver to unplug early. I do not permanently interrupt the charging of any actively charging vehicle w/o permission.
There might be cases where I might need to swap cables to optimize port usage (e.g. reachability issues between available handles and cars that need to be plugging in) but I generally prefer to avoid that if I have no way of contacting the driver. Some vehicles might have a charging timer turned on that I can't bypass w/o the owner doing it. Swapping might cause a permanent interruption.
How on earth do you know that others don’t need a charge?
I drive a Leaf too, I get it. But I’m certainly never going to unplug someone unless I talk to them directly and get their approval.
Don’t mess with somebody else’s car. Period.
Besides at my work where we have etiquette and it is OK to unplug cars that are done charging and to plug in your own vehicle and others waiting w/their charging door open... (We have LOTS of EVs and PHEVs at my work, including Leafs, Teslas, all the way down from the Spark EV all the way up to the BMW i8...)
The only proper time to unplug a car is if it's done. I've been a Leaf driver for over 4.5 years. I sometimes use free public L2 charging about 5 miles from home. If I am 100% sure that a car is done charging and I need to plug myself in. I do it. However, I've memorized the charging indicators on most cars that have them (ahem... Tesla) AND the stations themselves have a charging light that is lit when the attached vehicle is charging. If I see completed vehicles and others waiting w/charging doors open within reach, I plug them in too.
Some folks at the above public charging leave their car plugged in for hours after their car's done, occupying the space and tying up the plug. There's no reason for them to remain plugged in if the car is no longer drawing power. (This free public charging is NOT marked properly so that non-plugged in vehicles can be ticketed either.) I've seen it time and time again over the past 4.5 years.
Back to my work, we do have an internal registry of EVs/PHEVs and their driver and license plate, but some folks uhh... ignore the rules and don't add their vehicle.
And, it would be a pain in the butt while in the parking garage to go around w/my phone and/or laptop pinging people asking for permission to unplug their FINISHED vehicle to plug in my own car and/or other cars waiting. They may not be available to answer.