There is one thing I have a question about that you did with the charge port that I never saw a conclusion too. You ordered a replacement charge port with the internal heater. Did this ever get installed and what about the jumper harness you ordered?
I ordered two charge ports, actually: one, the Gen4 port which revealed all "the answers" with a teardown & reverse-engineering session, and two, a newer-revision of a Gen3 charge port compatible with my car.
Short version: the Gen4 port has a heater, and never will be compatible with the Gen3 car. It connects to the battery in a fundamentally different/incompatible way. The Gen3 port (used in 2019+ I think), however, has no feature/signal differences from the older revision port I already have. It's manufactured in a completely different way, by a different company (possibly Tesla in-house?), but it's electrically identical - and also doesn't have a heater.
Longer/deeper dive:
Gen4 charge port:
And this post:
Is it just me... or do those solar panels look like they have been installed upside down? I think they just have clear backings to make them look nicer.
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Gen3 charge port:
Early Gen3:
Is it just me... or do those solar panels look like they have been installed upside down? I think they just have clear backings to make them look nicer.
teslamotorsclub.com
Late Gen3:
Well, preliminary analysis was quick: it's the same bloody thing (identical in wiring to my Gen3 orange/encased/Yazaki? charge port). Just in yet another vastly different package that bears precisely zero similarities to my charge port in appearances. Tried to make the most info visible...
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(and the post before it on the previous page)
Oh, and as to that Tesla harness I ordered? It's just internal wiring that connects the Gen4 charge port to the (Gen4) ECU. Doesn't do me any good. Haven't even opened it. The service docs had all the info I needed, and that info worked, so it's just a cheap part that now sits in a box.
The Bundle of Wires that makes a Gen4 ECU work with a Gen3 ECU actually discards the port-heating pins - they go nowhere, but the ECU thinks there's a heater there. The problem is, there's no hardware in the port that could "heat", so there's nothing to connect to. The ECU also always thinks the port is hotter than it is (due to the thermistor issue, "patched" to a safety-functional degree with those resistors), so if it's 10F outside, it probably thinks the port is sitting happy at 60f. It wouldn't heat properly even if it could.
So as of now, there's no way (for Tesla or otherwise) to add a heater to a Gen3 charge port. Bring a cup of hot water!
Of course, everyone is challenged by the "you can't do that" / "watch me", but I mean: no straightforward way, no way a SC could have done it for you. Someone hacking up HV wires and making a mess of things, perhaps, could heat a port
(maybe more than intended....
haha)