The exact wording is in a screenshot taken from the website here:
Rumor: P85D firmware update to increase 0-60 performance to 2.8s - Page 5
First of all, there was never anything in that language that said the upgrade had to be requested. Second, neither of the upgrades referred to in that blurb had anything to do with the decrease in 0-60 times. The first explicitly stated that it was increasing the top speed from 130 to 155. The second talked about improving P85D performance at high speed. It didn't talk about acceleration or 0-60 times.
It is possible that we have not yet received the second item mentioned.
Edit: Here is the screenshot:
View attachment 84376