Congratulations to your son and daughter-in-law. Some thoughts:
0. May be cheaper for them to shop for solar independently, but probably not a choice since this is probably mandated by new homes. If getting from Lennar, with these new rate plans also better to shift the panels to face west instead of south. Less actual kwh, but at advantageous rates. The home roof design in the doc does appear to have some east-west roof. Prob not something the builder will accommodate, but doesn't hurt to ask.
1. The answer to this was in the numbers you gave. Either pay $8000 upfront for 25-30+ years or production, or pay 4809 x $0,15 = $720/year for typically 20 year PPA. The latter is financially like taking a 20-year loan on the $8000 at 7% interest, i.e. a bad deal since they can probably roll $8K into the mortgage at 4.5% for cheaper, and they'll own the panels outright and free power from years 21 onwards. So either way pay upfront with cash or rolled into the mortgage (and that's a decision of whether they think they can invest $8K at better than 4.5% return or not).
On top of this, the reference rate will probably be higher by May due to these new plans, and then there's the awful escalator clause that ratchets the rates up 2-3% every year of the 20-year PPA, making it truly a bad deal at 10%+ interest. PPA only applies to those who don't have cash, and can't finance through a home mortgage.
2. I'm not familiar with SCE rates since I'm in PG&E, but if they are solar but no EV, the answer may be different than folks here who are solar + EV, or EV only. Riverside will certainly have lots of summer A/C use during those 4-9 or 5-8 peak periods. Regardless, they should probably buy a smart thermostat that will crank the temp down before 4 pm when they are not home, when the electricity is cheaper, so the house is pre-cooled by the time they roll home at 5 or 6 pm ...
3. Most likely if they are closing after March 1, they cannot select a plan that is grandfathered already. I think for Solar no EV, they have to choose 4-9 or 5-8, but cannot choose PRIME unless they also get an EV? I'm inferring this from similar plans in PG&E territory.