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Not for a while, as far as I know. When Tesla was having their monthly "Weekend Social Series," that seemed to be the primary event folks were attending, and some good discussions were had there with Tesla reps and other owners. Sadly, it seems those socials have been discontinued (at least, I haven't been invited to one since sometime last year. )
We did have some weekend meetups on the Stanford campus, and I'd be up for doing that more often. My first up-close look at a Model X was at one of those meetups, when they were still brand new and the stores didn't have any.