I think the biggest things they need to fix right now are:
1). Braking is still too robitic and aggressive in stop and go. The distance between you and the car in front is literal and exact when it should be more like a range so it can avoid hard brake checks to those behind you causing them aalot of frustration. Have it close the gap and use more of the gap with a softer braking so you can maybe stop up to a half (or maybe even 1/4) car length between you and the car in front. When the car in front starts to go again, wait until the set car length is reached then start going again.
1a) it would be nice if AP tried to use regen braking at first with more fluid follow lengths and only go to friction brakes of it detects it needs more stopping power for safety.
1b) If possible it would be nice if Tesla could change the brake light behavior to be two stages. Eg. Regen braking = only the outside brake lights illuminate. Regen + Friction braking = light up center brake lights above license plate with outside brake lights for the full Monty. Having that change in behavior would be nice for cars behind us... Hey he's braking lightly (Regen only) to ok he could be stopping quickly on me (all tail lights)
2) I don't have NoA (waiting for the maps and can't understand why if they fail on install I have to go to the service center to get them redownload and installed this should be something that retries the download if my car is on WiFi but I digress)... From YT vids I've seen online NoA still too slow on on ramps merging onto interstate. I can see how this is tricky. Coding AP where it increases the speed up to the limit of the new road (interstate) you're merging onto could result in AP sometimes mistakenly assuming you're on an onramp when you might just be on a parallel access road of the GPS lock is off by a dozen feet or so. If that's the case maybe nav on AP shouldn't engage on on ramps yet, but instead wait until you're fully on the interstate? This is a tricky one and sort of brings me to #3..
3) Speed limit database and speed limit transitioning. Man is it scary when you're cruising along at 75 and the DB suddenly shows the car in a 55 MPH zone. It just brakes out of nowhere and is very dangerous and scary. This is going to get ppl rear ended if it hasn't already. I'd prefer to see it chime, ask for hands on the wheel, and blink the speed limit sign with maybe message that you might be going way over the speed limit. If no driver interaction in x amount of seconds, disengage AP, if steering wheel is moved (driver acknowledges warning allow the set speed to be maintained)
4) It will still sometimes abort lane changes and when it does it's scary. I'd rather it not change at all of it isn't sure. Don't get half way into new lane then yank back unless it is sure another car is in the way. That's going to cause accidents. If it isn't sure it can perform the maneuver, it should show on the console in a different color. Maybe green of it's very confident, yellow less confident, and red not gonna move detects obstruction/car in way. I've had it abort when the lane I wanted to change to was wideo open in light traffic. To the point where I'll sometimes disengage AP just for lane changes then re-engage once I'm in the lane I want